There are scores of articles for women on how to spot and avoid bad men. And let’s be straight up honest here, there are bad and evil men out there. There isn’t a lot of articles for men that fill the same purpose. Yes, I’ve come across a few in Maxim and FHM. I’ve also run across a few in some surprising places. Unless you know specifically where to look though finding these articles and books that deal with Relationships and Sexuality are very hard to find. Had more information been available people like Alec Minassian and Elliot Rodger may not have ever come along. How difficult is it you ask? I did a search at my local Chapters store where I live. I typed in Male Sexuality in the search engine and I got lots of books on couples, gay men, and female sexuality but not very much on men.
There are people much better at relationships and sexuality than I am. What I am good at is pointing out where the dragons and monsters are and how you can avoid them. This is what this blog is about. As I’m writing this I’m aware that this blog may have to be broken into parts to make for better digestion and absorption.
Let’s just clear something up right away here though
“Neroke! You’ve stated repeatedly that you’re a MGTOW yes?”
Yes, I have and the fact is that in the past few months I’ve become more devoted to being MGTOW than I thought possible. Yes, I do believe that first and foremost that going MGTOW will enable you to avoid all the warnings and signposts that I’m going to present here. No or minimal women no need right? Yes, absolutely here’s the catch though. Unless you’re planning on being a complete and absolute hermit you will still have female associations directly or indirectly. Which means that whether you like it or not having to deal with women is unavoidable. Having some basic human interaction skills will go a long way to avoiding difficulties. There are also some men once they’ve gone through the Red Pill Rage and figured out what they want for themselves, that may include having a woman around. Literally, every MGTOW content creator, blogger, and website owner goes on about the very real hazards and complications that women can bring into a man’s life. And let’s not kid ourselves given the current cultural climate they’re a lot of them. Most of the people reading this blog will know what these are all too well. (1*)
What you’re going to read here is a more of a scale than any kind of absolutes. There are indeed traits and signs that if you see a woman showing them you had better get the hell out before it’s too late. I’m also going to point out here that almost all of the women out there will likely have at least one of these. Which is why I’ve scaled this according to colors. These are Yellow, Orange and Red.
Like I just said almost every woman out there will have at least one of these. Which is why this is the lowest alert. One of these all by itself isn’t a reason to get out of seeing or dealing with a particular woman unless that reason is personal of course. What you do need to do here is that where this Yellow appears is usually some kind of indication that there are certain behaviors or habits, or other yellow flags may also appear. How many and what kinds these are and when you leave is up to you. Just remember though seeing a lot of these is never a good thing.
If you find a woman with an Orange Flag at absolute best you need to have clear and definite rules about what you will and will not tolerate. Any kind of violation of these terms is grounds for at least a warning. And that warning will need to be backed up with action should this woman choose to violate that boundary or rule again. Keep your cards close to your chest and have one eye on the exit. In fact, if you see an Orange Flag if you haven’t got an exit plan get one immediately. Don’t entwine yourself too closely to her unless you absolutely have to. Staying with someone like this long term is going to be AT VERY BEST Stressful, Emotional and Can and will wear you down if you don’t develop a proper support system.
Seriously! Get out NOW! This woman is toxic and dangerous. She can and likely will do something to you or someone you care about down the line that’ll take a massive amount of time, money, energy or any combination of them to repair. In some cases that damage may well be permanent and/or long-lasting. Strength isn’t the point here, a woman like this can wear down even the strongest man after a while. If you absolutely must sleep with a woman like this have an exit strategy and even if that strategy is practiced and rock solid you may still not escape intact. You may luck out and nothing will happen to you. Ultimately though you’re much better off moving on to someone else. (2*)
I had a hard time figuring out where to start here. There are some warning signs that are much more apparent then others and some of them will only become clear after you’ve been around the woman a while. I decided to start out with levels of engagement. Men are visual creatures which is exactly the reason why women put so much effort into their looks and why Feminists and Fat Acceptance screech so loudly about objectification and rail on dangerously and virulently against biology. So I decided to go with the straight up visuals as a first sign. So I’ll run through these as best I can to any person that gets offended at these.
So you’re somewhere, where that is isn’t important and you see this woman. You’re interested. (3*) You take a look if you’re a person who’s aware of the Red Pill you know all too well about the Gender rhetoric. As such a man you need to be aware of this. To the point that it’s unconscious and this kicks in without even having to think about it. This will be very important as this article goes on.
So you see HER! What does she look like? If she has any of these signs you need to note them right away.
Does she have brightly colored hair?
This picture sums it better than I can say it
There’s a reason why creatures in the wild are brightly colored like this. This is to advertise that they’re poisonous or very dangerous. However, this isn’t a foolproof method of detection as this picture shows below.
This needs to be paired up with other signs. Take Chanty Binx for instance
Now anyone that has any ability to read people can tell that this is a person that AT BEST has some serious anger issues, likely has got some mental illness and isn’t a person that you would want anywhere near you. In fact guys I don’t care how much you might click with this woman sexually (And there likely have been some guys that this has happened to) You need to go jerk off, find a professional redirect your sex energy do something but sticking your dick is asking for trouble (4*)
Does she have thick frame glasses?
Not an absolute killer just like brightly colored hair but well just have a look at this video of a woman who claimed that the comic shop she worked at here in Edmonton got Vandalized
Again that’s not to say that all women that have thick frame glasses are like this because most are not. You see this though you need to keep a watch for other signs as well.
While I’m not a huge fan of Return of Kings, you may want to consider this article
Does she have tattoos or piercings?
It all depends on what that tattoo is, where it’s located, how many etc. This applies even more so if they have piercings anywhere other than the ears and possibly a small one in her nose (5). That being said though when they look like this can you seriously call this beautiful?
Here are some more articles that give varying degrees of reasons why there need to be warning signs for women with Tattoos and Piercings
One thing about this article, in particular, is that the author Matt Forney got death threats for writing it. Which if you stop and think about it lends a lot of weight to the Women with Tattoos and Piercings are broken title
Here’s a couple more
OK, I get it! That’s a whole lot of Return of Kings. Something for you to consider here, Return of Kings is likely one of the few websites out there that will tell you about this topic. Before this generation, it was only people of poor standing that even got small tattoos much less the bigger ones. On a personal note here if I have to pick between two women and one of them is Tatted and the other one isn’t the one without them wins 98% of the time.
And I don’t even need scientific proof (6) to back this up. Just from direct personal experience I’ve witnessed women with Tattoos and Piercing act more melodramatically, aggressively and get into more disputes than other folks. There is also one other thing you need to know here
Does she have Tattoos or Piercing on her face, neck, front torso area? Or an abnormally large tattoo/piercing or tattoos/piercings covering most of her body.
This one is Orange almost to the point of being Red. The only reason it’s not red is that there are enough exceptions out there to suggest that there’s a possibility that she might not be completely broken or insane.
(1) To the people who interpret this a hatred of women, get a life and seriously get real
(2) Remember guys MGTOW is always an option, having had multiple encounters with Reds will show that to you. MGTOW is always an option before the shit hits the fan.
(3) MGTOW guys don’t tell me that you don’t notice, you may notice and look away but you still notice
(4) You’re going to hear me say this a lot here so get used to it.
(5) Not really sure why but there’re a large number of women who practice yoga that have this small ring in their nose! This, by the way, is one of the few exceptions to the piercing rule that I can think of
(6) Scientific proof helps a lot though