There are scores of articles for women on how to spot and avoid bad men. And let’s be straight up honest here, there are bad and evil men out there. There isn’t a lot of articles for men that fill the same purpose. Yes, I’ve come across a few in Maxim and FHM. I’ve also run across a few in some surprising places. Unless you know specifically where to look though finding these articles and books that deal with Relationships and Sexuality are very hard to find. Had more information been available people like Alec Minassian and Elliot Rodger may not have ever come along. How difficult is it you ask? I did a search at my local Chapters store where I live. I typed in Male Sexuality in the search engine and I got lots of books on couples, gay men, and female sexuality but not very much on men.
There are people much better at relationships and sexuality than I am. What I am good at is pointing out where the dragons and monsters are and how you can avoid them. This is what this blog is about. As I’m writing this I’m aware that this blog may have to be broken into parts to make for better digestion and absorption.
Let’s just clear something up right away here though
“Neroke! You’ve stated repeatedly that you’re a MGTOW yes?”
Yes, I have and the fact is that in the past few months I’ve become more devoted to being MGTOW than I thought possible. Yes, I do believe that first and foremost that going MGTOW will enable you to avoid all the warnings and signposts that I’m going to present here. No or minimal women no need right? Yes, absolutely here’s the catch though. Unless you’re planning on being a complete and absolute hermit you will still have female associations directly or indirectly. Which means that whether you like it or not having to deal with women is unavoidable. Having some basic human interaction skills will go a long way to avoiding difficulties. There are also some men once they’ve gone through the Red Pill Rage and figured out what they want for themselves, that may include having a woman around. Literally, every MGTOW content creator, blogger, and website owner goes on about the very real hazards and complications that women can bring into a man’s life. And let’s not kid ourselves given the current cultural climate they’re a lot of them. Most of the people reading this blog will know what these are all too well. (1*)
What you’re going to read here is a more of a scale than any kind of absolutes. There are indeed traits and signs that if you see a woman showing them you had better get the hell out before it’s too late. I’m also going to point out here that almost all of the women out there will likely have at least one of these. Which is why I’ve scaled this according to colors. These are Yellow, Orange and Red.
Like I just said almost every woman out there will have at least one of these. Which is why this is the lowest alert. One of these all by itself isn’t a reason to get out of seeing or dealing with a particular woman unless that reason is personal of course. What you do need to do here is that where this Yellow appears is usually some kind of indication that there are certain behaviors or habits, or other yellow flags may also appear. How many and what kinds these are and when you leave is up to you. Just remember though seeing a lot of these is never a good thing.
If you find a woman with an Orange Flag at absolute best you need to have clear and definite rules about what you will and will not tolerate. Any kind of violation of these terms is grounds for at least a warning. And that warning will need to be backed up with action should this woman choose to violate those boundaries or rules. Keep your cards close to your chest and have one eye on the exit. In fact, if you see an Orange Flag if you haven’t got an exit plan get one immediately. Don’t entwine yourself too closely to her unless you absolutely have to. Staying with someone like this long term is going to be AT VERY BEST Stressful, Emotional and Can and will wear you down if you don’t develop a proper support system.
Seriously! Get out NOW! This woman is toxic and dangerous. She can and likely will do something to you or someone you care about down the line that’ll take a massive amount of time, money, energy or any combination of them to repair. In some cases that damage may well be permanent and/or long-lasting. Strength isn’t the point here, a woman like this can wear down even the strongest man after a while. If you absolutely must sleep with a woman like this have an exit strategy and even if that strategy is practiced and rock solid you may still not escape intact. You may luck out and nothing will happen to you. Ultimately though you’re much better off moving on to someone else. (2*)
I had a hard time figuring out where to start here. There are some warning signs that are much more apparent then others and some of them will only become clear after you’ve been around the woman a while. I decided to start out with levels of engagement. Men are visual creatures which is exactly the reason why women put so much effort into their looks and why Feminists and Fat Acceptance screech so loudly about objectification and rail on dangerously and virulently against biology. So I decided to go with the straight up visuals as a first sign. So I’ll run through these as best I can to any person that gets offended at these.
So you’re somewhere, where that is isn’t important and you see this woman. You’re interested. (3*) You take a look if you’re a person who’s aware of the Red Pill you know all too well about the Gender rhetoric. As such a man you need to be aware of this. To the point that it’s unconscious and this kicks in without even having to think about it. This will be very important as this article goes on.
So you see HER! What does she look like? If she has any of these signs you need to note them right away.
Does she have brightly colored hair?
This picture sums it better than I can say it
There’s a reason why creatures in the wild are brightly colored like this. This is to advertise that they’re poisonous or very dangerous. However, this isn’t a foolproof method of detection as this picture shows below.
This needs to be paired up with other signs. Take Chanty Binx for instance
Now anyone that has any ability to read people can tell that this is a person that AT BEST has some serious anger issues, likely has got some mental illness and isn’t a person that you would want anywhere near you. In fact guys I don’t care how much you might click with this woman sexually (And there likely have been some guys that this has happened to) You need to go jerk off, find a professional redirect your sex energy do something but sticking your dick in crazy is asking for trouble (4*)
Does she have thick frame glasses?
Not an absolute killer just like brightly colored hair but well just have a look at this video of a woman who claimed that the comic shop she worked at here in Edmonton got Vandalized
Again that’s not to say that all women that have thick frame glasses are like this because most are not. You see this though you need to keep a watch for other signs as well.
While I’m not a huge fan of Return of Kings, you may want to consider this article
Does she have tattoos or piercings?
It all depends on what that tattoo is, where it’s located, how many etc. This applies even more so if they have piercings anywhere other than the ears and possibly a small one in her nose (5). That being said though when they look like this can you seriously call this beautiful?
Here are some more articles that give varying degrees of reasons why there need to be warning signs for women with Tattoos and Piercings
One thing about this article, in particular, is that the author Matt Forney got death threats for writing it. Which if you stop and think about it lends a lot of weight to the Women with Tattoos and Piercings are broken title
Here’s a couple more
OK, I get it! That’s a whole lot of Return of Kings. Something for you to consider here, Return of Kings is likely one of the few websites out there that will tell you about this topic. Before this generation, it was only people of poor standing that even got small tattoos much less the bigger ones. On a personal note here if I have to pick between two women and one of them is Tatted and the other one isn’t the one without them wins 98% of the time.
And I don’t even need scientific proof (6) to back this up. Just from direct personal experience I’ve witnessed women with Tattoos and Piercing act more melodramatically, aggressively and get into more disputes than other folks. There is also one other thing you need to know here
Does she have Tattoos or Piercing on her face, neck, front torso area? Or an abnormally large tattoo/piercing or tattoos/piercings covering most of her body.
This one is Orange almost to the point of being Red. The only reason it’s not red is that there are enough exceptions out there to suggest that there’s a possibility that she might not be completely broken or insane.
Is she a landwhale?
Do I have to say more? Just look at the pics. Unless you’re a chubby chaser the stigma of banging a woman this size is embarrassing. There’s no way of getting around the stigma that you couldn’t do any better and had to settle. Plus the fact that you still have to deal with all the other BS that women do except that in this case you also have to deal with the fact that she’s fat. And let’s not even get into the potential or very real body and health issues that this woman has. Which may or may not include hiring proprietary security to guard your fridge or pantry!
Addition: Added June 5, 2018
Cut Marks on her wrists or arms (Or anywhere else)
This is a sign that at one time or another this woman was in such a bad state that they felt that they either needed to self-harm (Borderline disorder). Or were in such a bad state that they felt that suicide or attempting suicide was an option for them. This woman has experienced or felt enough trauma to do this to themselves. You need to consider and remember that the factors that put her in this state of mind may still be present. Unlike a lot of the other factors though this one may slide up or down depending on what you find out later.
(1) To the people who interpret this a hatred of women, get a life and seriously get real
(2) Remember guys MGTOW is always an option, having had multiple encounters with Reds will show that to you. MGTOW is always an option before the shit hits the fan.
(3) MGTOW guys don’t tell me that you don’t notice, you may notice and look away but you still notice
(4) You’re going to hear me say this a lot here so get used to it.
(5) Not really sure why but there’re a large number of women who practice yoga that have this small ring in their nose! This, by the way, is one of the few exceptions to the piercing rule that I can think of
(6) Scientific proof helps a lot though
It’s done in two parts because of technical issues
Here are tonights topics
1. Kanye West continued from 2 weeks ago
2. Meet the Renegades of the Intellectual Dark Web
3. Incels did nothing wrong
4. Bar Bar is back with this VIEW MORE ON SOCIAL BLADE
East Area Rapist, Edmund Kemper, And child abuse pt1
Original Article by Jewish News and Politics
This was the last straw for me.
This is somewhat personal, I remain forever grateful to the SPLC for dealing with a very serious Skinhead problem that had been growing like cancer on the West Coast. Including my hometown of Vancouver
Some of these images are more recent
Now if you remember living in Vancouver in the late 80’s and early 90’s you’ll remember these shitstain skinheads hanging out at Granville and Georgia. These assholes acted like they owned the city. They openly intimidated and swore at anyone who wasn’t white that also happened to include yours truly. I can remember many people myself included simply not going up the escalators in the nearby building and crossing over to the other side of Pacific Center to not have to deal with these idiots. That wasn’t all they openly and brazenly fought with and tried to push around the other more established gangs, in particular, the Asian ones. There was even a full out fight between The Skinheads and The Largest Asian Gang in Vancouver that happened in 1989. I can’t confirm that this happened, but I did hear the rumors. What stood out though was the fact that in terms of numbers the Asian Gangs in Vancouver were a lot bigger. But somehow for that fight, there were rumors that The Skinheads had pulled in support from outside Vancouver for help.
By the time I returned to Vancouver in 1993 they were no longer there. I didn’t find out what had happened until a few years later when I found out about Mulugeta Seraw.
These were real racists and white supremacists. Not the manufactured type that you see Black Lives Matter create to justify their existence. I was quite relieved to not see them hanging around there anymore. The SPLC was actually something to be proud of back then. They helped take down WAR (White Aryan Resistance) which was rapidly turning into an organized crime syndicate.
That’s why it pains me to have to write this organization off like I have with so many of the other institutions that I used to believe in. What was once an organization that fought for the civil rights of people that couldn’t otherwise fight back, has now devolved into a money making scheme where the organization simply creates racist and hate group bogeymen to justify its existence.
I’m just going to run down the things that I know have happened in the past few months with the SPLC
First, the SPLC is no longer a trusted source of information with the FBI who dumped them
Then there was the SPLC labeling Mens Rights as a hate group
And of course their idiotic attacks on Kekistan
Not done yet there’s also their involvement in the recent YouTube Purge a few weeks back
And then there was the video I recently saw that was done by John Stossel
Then, of course, there were all of the other videos I found as I was doing the research and finding the links to these videos on YouTube.
Sam Harris on SPLC, Ayaan Hirsi Ali and Maajid Nawaz
This is just YouTube if I didn’t need to be up in a couple of hours I would’ve also started digging up news articles.
As you can see the SPLC from where I’m sitting is no longer the institution it once was in the past.
“The SPLC, after all, is the group that had once, nearly four decades ago, protected Vietnamese shrimpers from the Klan in Galveston Bay, sued several white supremacist groups out of existence, and delivered justice to the family Mulugeta Seraw, an Ethiopian student bludgeoned to death by members of a Neo-Nazi group in Portland, Oregon”
That quote is taken from the original and only webpage link in this blog.
Now much like Feminists, BLM and few others it’s only purpose appears to be creating new opponents, some real some not. While there may be some legitimate fighting against true racists and hate groups in North America. There is, for instance, a very nasty strain of Anti-Semitism running through the Deplorables. Not everyone of course but there have been people that I otherwise respect that go right off the rails when it comes to this issue. Mostly though it would appear that the SPLC like Feminists are simply generating enemies and issues to fight to fill their coffers and justify their existence.
So while I’m grateful that the SPLC got rid of a nasty bunch of people in my hometown, albeit indirectly. This organization needs to redefine itself to fit the changing landscape. There is more than enough injustice overseas and internationally that it could help out with.
This isn’t the first organization I’ve lost faith in. Greenpeace (An organization FOUNDED in Vancouver) had sold itself out much earlier. And I could go into stories about them if I had the time. But in the meantime as long as the rot and corruption continue to fester this badly on the left. People like myself and Lindsay Shepherd are being left with no other choice but to abandon the left. There are more than a few of us out there.
I first read this article late in 2017!
It’s not very often that I’ll do a response to someone who’s Anti-MGTOW because in all honesty unless the person is Red Pilled they either can’t or won’t be able to grasp the points of MGTOW or the Red Pill even if you say it to right to their face. You’re either awake, (not woke I’m not going anywhere near that SJW term) or not. There’s not really any transition between the two.
But Lee Woofenden you easily wrote one of the most insulting, ignorant and self-righteous blogs about MGTOW that I’ve come across. You pretty it up and there are some points for consideration in there. The only problem is ASSHOLE is that you spiced those points with shame and a tone that only a religious bigot could accomplish.
So here’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to tear down your article, but not in the way you might expect. You see your blog was so insulting that you don’t really even deserve to be proven wrong. What I’m going to do is talk to the crowd and to my fellow MGTOW and Red Pill men so they may best learn how to deal with someone like you in the future.
Not going over to your blog to reply to you there. You have a problem with me you take it to my comments. Just remember YOU chose to write what you wrote so if my language and opinions about what you wrote comes across as harsh or unforgiving well you can pray to your non-existent sky deity for guidance.
And Oh yes let’s just get this out of the way for starters I’m an Atheist and there is no God, no Lucifer either.
So let’s get started on this sanctimonious blather
The first couple of paragraphs are just intro we can ignore them. Doesn’t take this guy long to go off the rails.
“If you spend any time reading MGTOW websites and forums, you’ll find them populated largely by men who have had hellaciously bad experiences in their relationships with women, and who have decided to opt out. Some continue to have one-night stands with women or use the services of prostitutes in order to satisfy their sex drive. Others “go monk” and become celibate. In this community, men actually brag about being virgins.
Needless to say, PUAs despise MGTOW as Dorito-munching, mother’s-basement-dwelling losers who are sad and lonely because they could never get a girl. And MGTOW despise PUAs as preening, hormone-driven pretty boys whose whole life revolves around the women they despise.”
Well, imagine that folks, we as a group have had bad experiences with women. We have anger and toxic feelings to process. But somehow this stunned fucking idiot equates that with “We despise women”.
Right there we know this just doesn’t get it! Somehow this idiot doesn’t get that anger needs to be vented. Of course, because Lee here is such an epic cuck he views this as despising women. Apparently, this guy has had such a tranquil life that he doesn’t grasp that anger and pain need to be processed and vented in a safe place. You as a MGTOW going through the Red Pill Rage process are perfectly entitled to vent as much as you feel you need to. A man going through this process needs the time and space to process these feelings. To anyone third party reading this no I don’t especially care if you think those feelings are valid or not. There are MGTOW that are mentally ill or damaged beyond recovery, those men are not the ones you roll out as examples for all MGTOW. Something that Lee does later on in this blog. Now if they remain stuck there then you have a problem anger though once expressed tends to burn itself out pretty fast.
“And MGTOW as a group do despise women.
These Red Pill men have woken up, not so much as losers, but as loners.”
Anger tends to happen when your boundaries have been violated. Let me make this clear to you MGTOW brothers. Being angry at the women that have done whatever they did to you is a legitimate feeling. It doesn’t mean that you hate all women, yes you have had experiences that have caused you to feel the need to be extremely careful around them. And in some cases, you’d prefer to even avoid them as much as possible. That doesn’t equate to despising them no matter how much ignorant assholes like Lee say it does. Now you as healthy person can put that anger behind you and move on. What I’ve discovered about trauma recently is that you never really “Get over it” what really happens is that you process it, learn from it and move on. Now if that process requires you to say things in anger then so be it. That’s what the forums are there for. Something here that Lee either can’t or won’t get.
“Most of them had their brush with women, got burned—sometimes quite badly—and decided that it’s better not to play with fire.
And if a man wants to be single, that’s certainly his choice. There have been single men throughout the ages. Some of them have done great things.
Of course and you know what that’s my and your choice as a MGTOW to make.
The problem is not so much in their deciding to become single, but in their intense disdain for and even hatred of women, and in their blaming women for all of their problems as men.”
Seriously you have got to LOVE how trad-con assholes like this intentionally ignore the other issues that have nothing to do with women. If you’re like me and have gone through the Red Pill Rage then you know that women by themselves are not the problem. Women have always been women it’s the current culture and laws have taken the worst aspects of women and allowed them to flourish. Now it really beats the hell out of me how Lee here could be so damn thick that he didn’t figure this out but well what do you expect from this guy? And here’s the catcher we’re just a couple of paragraphs into this drivel. Of course, I already know Lee’s next argument “But there are men like this”
Yeah, Lee! Stick that Straw Man where the sun doesn’t shine!
“Once more, as with the first article in this series, “The Red Pill Movement (MRA): Men Waking Up as Victims,” and the second, “The Red Pill Movement (PUA): Men Waking Up as Animals,” we won’t spend time describing the MGTOW community. You can get the basic idea from Wikipedia’s MGTOW article.”
Actually the Wikipedia MGTOW article got slaughtered after it first came out. The Wikipedia article mentions manginas like Mack Lameroux as a source for MGTOW when in fact his total research for this article consisted of looking at some rather biased sources and a short interview with Walking Away Man. How do I know this? Because I INTERVIEWED the man in the VICE article myself. Here it is for you to enjoy
The MGTOW movement has also gone through some changes over the years since it first identified itself in the early 2000s. For the “old school” view, see the blog “NO MA’AM” (now apparently inactive) and the original “MGTOW Manifesto”—which lacks the later hostility against women and the “marriage strike” that characterizes much of the MGTOW community today. Today’s MGTOW community is represented on the blog and forums at MGTOW.com and in the MGTOW subreddit at Reddit.com.”
“For men in the MGTOW community, these websites are breezy island havens from a hostile, gynocentric, man-hating world. For people not in the MGTOW community, they commonly look more like festering swamps of misogynistic bigotry.”
MGTOW moved past the original founders a LONG time ago Lee. People like Barbarosa, Spetsnaz, Thinking Ape and few others moved it to the next level. This tends to happen to movements. What happened with NO MA’AM” is no longer all the relevant. But well as we go along we’ll see here that Lee has his ass shoved so far up religious trad-con dogmas ass that he’ll never see that
Refer back to the need for men to have the space to process their feelings. But well if people like Lee had their way we’d all be walking emotional bombs. I have to openly wonder how many people are alive now because men have this place as opposed to acting out or dying on the inside from anger. Seriously Lee fuck you for even trying to shame men like this.
“In fact, one of the core dogmas of the Red Pill movement generally, and MGTOW specifically, is represented by the acronym “AWALT.” Here’s how it is defined at the RationalWiki’s slightly satirical “Manosphere glossary” (which is worth reading for its entertainment value alone):”
Well, I don’t know about you but I’m not here for Lee’s entertainment. Anyone that’s been around for a while that Red Pill and MGTOW are no more synonymous than MGTOW and MRA. There is overlap that doesn’t mean that they’re the same thing. Clearly, Lee never went over to the Red Pill Subreddit because if he had he’d know that The Red Pill Subreddit has very little to do with MGTOW. In fact, based on personal experience there that subreddit is quite hostile to MGTOW. In fact, Lee if you had bothered you’d have noticed that the Red Pill Subreddit is more of a PUA site than a MGTOW affiliation. I stopped posting my content there because the amount of ignorant content about MGTOW was staggering.
But here’s the basic definition of the Red Pill for you.
If you go into a MGTOW forum and say, “Not all women are like that!” (which has its own acronym: NAWALT), you will quickly be shouted down as an infidel and a heretic. AWALT is ex cathedra. It’s an established article of faith. You’re not allowed to question it.
And the MGTOW sites and forums are full of fervent testimonials to AWALT.
I don’t know about you but whenever I’ve used NAWALT at these sites I’ve never been angrily shouted down. I’m going to have to surmise that Lee here went all White Knight and used the same assinine condescending language at these sites that he used on his blog. Now if he’d done that there then yes absolutely you’ll get shouted down. Gotta point out here given what I’ve read so far that if I were a gambler I’d put money on that. Well, let’s just go back here. MGTOW especially the ones that have gone through the red pill rage, know that women aren’t the issue they’re a symptom. Just like how MGTOW is a reaction to this situation
See, for example, the article “Comments from Married Men” at MGTOW.com. It extracts comments from one of its forums on that subject, arranging them in nine sections that have no immediately discernible thematic organization. But the overall theme and message is crystal clear: DON’T BE AN IDIOT LOSER AND GET MARRIED!You’ll regret it every single day for the rest of your life!!!
You’ll regret it because the very second you slip the wedding ring onto her finger, your fun, intelligent, gorgeous, sex-loving soulmate will instantly transform into a fat, lazy, whining, nagging bitch who will never have sex with you again. The day after the wedding she will quit her job and flop down on the couch in front of the TV with a Dove Bar in each fist while simultaneously spending all of your money on plastic crap at Walmart and threatening to clean you out of everything you own if you don’t work 80 hours a week to feed her insatiable desire for clothing, shoes, jewelry, and a much bigger house than this hovel we live in.
Read ’em and weep!
Of course, it’s a self-selecting group. Men in happy marriages don’t go to MGTOW forums on the Internet and recount in lurid detail exactly how execrably atrocious their wife or ex-wife is.
But for those men who do have the misfortune of marrying a captivating young beauty who in the harsh light of the morning turns out to be a lazy, gold-digging harpy, the experience can be so traumatizing that when they see or think “woman,” that image of woman completely fills their field of vision. Nothing else exists.
And so they console one another: “AWALT, man!”
We already know that this can and does happen. Literally, every male I know and that I’ve discussed this with knows of at least one man that this is happening to. Lee here much like that idiot Brad Wilcox intentionally ignores this problem.
MGTOW.com Comments from Married Men isn’t a testimonial to all men everywhere that this is guaranteed to happen. But if you’re so thick to think that it can’t happen then well that’ll be on you not MGTOW. Lee here intentionally frames this is a section where bitter, angry men vent about their failures. Not what that section is supposed to be a road sign
This is a warning, that this can happen. You can be the perfect husband and on a whim thanks to no-fault divorce you run a risk of having your entire life taken apart by a misandrist and corrupt family law system. Both Lee and Brad Wilcox intentionally ignore this. Which is why we as MGTOW need to intentionally ignore them. Need more proof this a link to Divorce Corp.
Now factor this in with what you’ll read at MGTOW.com and you’d have to at the absolute least think really hard about ever getting married in this current cultural climate.
Lee here then goes on to use ONE EXAMPLE and projects this as an example for all MGTOW
The fully realized MGHOW
Here is the abridged testimonial of a successful MGHOW from the above-linked article:
Thanks to going to bed at 5:30AM after a relaxing night of surfing the internet and watching porn, I slept in a little bit late this morning. It was actually the afternoon – 12:25PM to be exact – when I finally sat up in bed, yawning and scratching my big bachelor nuts. . . .
So, anyway, I’m up at half-twelve. I had a nice cigarette whilst checking my e-mails. Then I had a coffee and another cigarette whilst playing a bit of Soldier of Fortune II until I got bored of shooting virtual people’s virtual brains out. A nice big fry-up followed. Mmmm… sausages and bacon. . . . Come two o’clock and I’m down at the local supermarket. I bought some booze, hamburgers, potatoes, bacon and waffles. I also bought some pizza that, right at this moment in time, I’m currently stuffing into my mouth. Munch munch. I’m also currently watching Beavis & Butthead. I downloaded a few episodes via BitTorrent the other day. It’s not even six and I’m pleasantly drunk, eating pizza and watching some great comedy. What’s planned for this evening? I’ll probably have a nice relaxing bath and read Viz whilst I’m soaking in the tub. Then I’ll probably have a few more glasses of wine and watch some of the many South Park and The Simpsons episodes that are lying around the Hard Drives of my five computers. Also, I’ve just reinstalled Deus Ex and I’d like to play some of that too. Who knows what the future may bring? Whatever I want it to, that’s what.
Are we supposed to be impressed?
We’re not here to fucking impress you or your Trad-con stooges Lee! Don’t care if you’re impressed or not. Granted I personally think living this way is a waste of time. But well that’s his choice to make not yours. And there was a period like this for me, I thought it was time wasted until I got to where I was now. I now see that period in my life allowed me the time to figure out where I was going. Such a process cannot be forced they get there when they get there. And when MGTOW get on to the other side just remember that we’re still not required to kiss Lee’s ass. He, however, is quite welcome to kiss mine.
As I was reading through this rambling Paean to the Modern Neanderthal Man, it actually started to get funny. I started thinking: This is just too perfect! Maybe the joke’s on us. Maybe this was written as a satirical caricature of a MGHOW. Maybe it will end with the punch line, “Hello, my name is ____, and I’m a MGTOW loser. But at least I don’t have to deal with a nagging bitch of a wife!”
But no, he was serious. He ended with this:
If I was married I would probably be standing in a stupid department store right now, looking at my watch and tutting whilst the wife decides which dress she’s only going to wear once she wants to buy with my money! But I’m not married. I’m an eternal bachelor. To put it another way, I’m eternally happy and free.
“Eternally happy and free” to do what? Totally waste your life?
Yes, my subheading is satirical. I’m well aware that there have been and still are many single men who do great things with their lives. And I’m sure there are many decent and productive men in the MGTOW community.
But with “testimonials” like that, is it any wonder that MGTOW have gotten a reputation for being Dorito-munching, mom’s-basement-dwelling losers?
Again you take as much time as you need to figure out who and what you are. It’s not Lee’s place here to tell you what you need to do or what you should be. Remember men the laws and cultural climate are stacked against us. This is a call for us to return to the plantation and pick up the yoke. But seriously why the hell would we want to, where’s the payoff? I already know Lee would like to pull out some Jesus crap or that you get to live your life a productive person. I LIVE as a productive person. You decide or have decided what’s best for you. The image isn’t important because we all know that MGTOW is a reaction and this reaction includes a checking out component. This component is essential if you’re going to figure yourself out. Maybe you need to exist as a minimalist for a few years to get there. It’s not Lee’s call to make, and quite frankly I don’t give a damn what MGTOW’s image is. The current system does more to promote MGTOW than anything you’ll say against it.
Oh yeah, that’s right with assholes like you what I’m saying is just conspiracy theory right? Yeah well go watch the Red Pill Movie and get back to me. Still going to be MGTOW when you’re finished.
AWALT is no excuse for LOSER
Okay, “LOSER” isn’t really an acronym for anything in the Red Pill movement.
But many of these Red Pill men, including a disproportionate percentage of MGTOW, have come to the conclusion that their life sucks and that it’s all because of those horrible, horrible females.
So once again I’ll say to Red Pill men: Stop blaming women for your problems. It’s not manly. And it gets you nowhere.
God damn, I can’t even remember how many times I’ve said this already. Women are a SYMPTOM, not the cause. Women have always been women. How about you get off your stool and get honest and look at the situation instead of using shaming language you EPIC CUCK!
If you’ve hitched yourself to a woman who tears you down and sucks you dry, then, by all means, do what’s necessary to extricate yourself from the situation. Or if that’s not possible (due to children, etc.), then take whatever steps you need to keep yourself sane.
But you still have to be a man.
Yes, and we’ll decide what that means for ourselves, not have some tradcon scream and lecture us as to what he ‘thinks’ we should be. You’re free to decide this for yourself MGTOW men.
You still have to take responsibility for your own life.
I am responsible for my life, and right now my responsibility is making sure some self-righteous asshole like you doesn’t get to decide what I should be. And every MGTOW is in the same boat.
You still have to follow your own goals and ideals, and work toward accomplishing something you believe in.
There are many men who are stuck in sucky marriages but who still do great things. They have drive, ambition, and a vision of what they want to accomplish.
We’ve all met men like this. Wouldn’t trade places with a man in that situation ever. And of course, I’m finding this ironic especially since he just finished attacking the “Comments from Married Men” at MGTOW.com. A couple of paragraphs ago. Now, who else does this?
Oh yes, Radical Feminists do this!
Of course, they would prefer to have a good marriage too. But they don’t let their bad marriage stop them from accomplishing their goals. For such a man, the focus is on accomplishments in the world of business or finance or politics or art. Where the money that flows from those accomplishments goes is a secondary consideration. So even if their gold-digging wives or ex-wives are bleeding them dry financially, they keep right on going.
And again no man is right mind would trade places with that guy. And knowing that this trap can be sprung on a man at ANY TIME in a marriage would make anyone think twice about it. Seriously fuck this nobly suffering part, well maybe in my case reading this blog by Lee is punishment enough.
I’m not saying this is a good situation. I’m not saying it’s right for women to leech off of men. Quite the contrary. Some women are indeed blood-sucking gold-diggers. And that is to their great shame.
Yep but hey you lost a leg in that minefield but you’re a man so go in again because society needs you! How stupid do you think I am?
Rather, I’m saying that if your focus is on money, possessions, and property, then a gold-digging wife is a life-ending disaster for you. But if your focus is on accomplishing something good and worthwhile in the world, you can keep being a winner as a man even if you are the loser financially in marriage or in divorce court.
So do what it takes to make your life work. Extricate yourself from a bad marital situation if you can. Protect what assets you can protect. But don’t blame your terrible wife, or that terrible, blood-sucking female race, or those terrible feminazis, if you are a failure as a man. That’s on your shoulders.
No, that’s not on my shoulders you ignorant shit. There are scores of magazines on racks in every supermarket and store that teach women how to put on their best face so men won’t see what they are until it’s too late. However, when such publications for men are released they’re demonized. Yes, folks, Lee is that thick that he doesn’t see that. No point in explaining it to him. But yes you know fellow MGTOW that this is indeed the case. Just look at what’s happened to RooshV. Now I’ll admit my opinions are mixed on RooshV but that doesn’t dismiss the level of harassment RooshV has had to endure even in attempts to warn men about potentially toxic women.
Men must take responsibility for themselves
So to the MGTOW specifically I say: If you want to be single, no problem. That’s your choice.
Damn straight it is, now GET LOST LEE!
But take responsibility for your own life. Do something good and productive with your time, energy, and talents. Don’t let your bad experiences with women be an excuse to check out of society and waste away your life in some isolated man cave.
I do and stop projecting your values about some non existent sky diety on us!
Once again, I speak from experience. I’ve been through the whole thing. When I was young (24, to be exact) and even more foolish than I am today, I married the wrong woman (we were not the best match for each other), and proceeded to have a marriage that was fine at first, but gradually went downhill until it ended in divorce twenty-four years later. By the time the divorce was final, I had spent half of my life in a deteriorating marriage.
Was that my former wife’s fault? It would be nice to be able to blame her. But the fact of the matter is that I was the headstrong young male who pursued her for nine years until she finally agreed to marry me. And though she is, of course, responsible for her own decision to marry me and for whatever she did during the marriage, I can’t avoid responsibility for the fact that I made and pursued the decision to marry her despite many indications that it wasn’t such a great idea.
And when the mismatched marriage finally broke up, it was my job to pick up the pieces of my own life and continue on to accomplish what I am here on earth to do.
Yup, because his experience means that every other male will just MAGICALLY have that happen to him too. And MGTOW is a purpose that men are going to chose. Keep trucking MGTOW despite what Lee just said here you’re enititled to your life.
That’s what it means to be a man. And the original MGTOW philosophy was not about dissing, denigrating, and blaming women, but about achieving one’s best potential as a man, regardless of what women do.
Second time the original MGTOW philosophy has been pushed past by the second generation who wrote a lot more eloquently and intelligently than the original founders did. This does happen sometimes so just lay off with ‘the original founders would be horrified crap” because.
- You aint one of them
- You’re not MGTOW
- Trad Con crap doesn’t fly here
For some men, this will mean being single. For others, it will mean being in a relationship or a marriage with a wog man.
Either way, a man is responsible for his own life. If you make bad choices or get yourself into bad relationships, that is still your responsibility.
I REALLY hope you’re not going into blame mode here because if you are FUCK YOU!
So although I know the men in the Red Pill movement hate to hear it, I’ll say again, as I said at the end of the first article in this series:
Man up, quit complaining, and do the hard work.
No, you fuck off and go be a cuck somewhere else. I and every MGTOW will take as long as we feel it’s required to figure out what we want out of our lives. That won’t be dictated to me by some Bible Thumping Trad Con asswipe who thinks he knows better because some non-existent sky diety quoted by barely literate goat herders said 2000 years ago is a good model for everyone.
If you want to be a man, you have to act like one.
OK, I’m going to be one here. And politely tell you to go have sex with yourself and mind your own business. You’re an idiot and haven’t got a clue what MGTOW is and that’s been clearly written down. You’re not MGTOW you don’t get a say. Your shaming language is pathetic and so are you, Lee.
There that ‘man’ enough for you?
I just joined MakerSupport Myself this person gives the best breakdown I’ve read so far about sites like these
“4 years ago I met my partner wounded and broken by his ex-girlfriend who he had a young baby with.
She falsely accused him of assault and got a restraining order against him.
She harassed my partner and I endlessly with false accusations, lawsuits, and tens of thousands of incessant text messages for years. He tried to rise above her mental insanity for his child.
He struggled. He stood up and stood down trying to protect his daughter. He spent every last penny he had fighting in court because mediation and old school “sit down and talk it out” was out of the question.
He was never given the rights he deserved.
He fought for custody in court and was granted 10 days a month visitation which his ex girlfriend didn’t honour. She would play games and make EVERY single child exchange extremely difficult. Which would cause undue stress on the child.
He would have to drive 8 hours to get his daughter through icy mountain passes on his own dime. Switching his days off at work every 5 minutes to suit her needs. The 2-4 travel days counted as part of the 10 days he had with his daughter.
There were many dark times. It broke my heart to see him fall apart after child exchanges. He would come home exhausted, completely defeated, and broken. He felt manipulated, and worthless.
It was really hard to watch that happen over and over to someone you love. I watched how stressed he would get from the 10s of thousands of texts and emails everyday consuming his life. Trying to ignore them, but couldn’t. They wouldn’t stop, no matter how many times he voiced his personal boundaries and space. The constant fear he had of the next legal document to be served or the next hurdle he would have to jump through to protect himself and his daughter. The anxiety that followed. The constant and unsubstantiated worry that caused significant distress and interfered with his daily life.
When she couldn’t control him, she would control how others saw him, internally turning friends and family against him. I saw the shame he felt at the grocery store or the swimming pool. I watched him avoid social situations in fear of being judged, embarrassed or humiliated. And the insecurities that followed.
I laid next to him every night while he tossed and turned. Unable to sleep. Needing extra love and snuggles or a back rub to finally fall asleep.
This was really hard and painful to support. My friends worried about me asking me when I don’t leave? But then again, how could I? He was tired. I was tired. Mentally exhausted. Not only was he in dire need of sleep, but in dire need of peace. I watched him begin to drink the pain away. After a nasty fight, coming home empty handed yet again without his daughter, the stress of the financial struggles from many, many legal fees.
I watched over the years his sense of self slowly erode from the verbal abuse, the threats, bullying and constant criticism. I watched as this ate away at him, trying to be happy on the outside, trying to enjoy life, but the damage was detrimental. His confidence and self-esteem became weaker and weaker every time there was contact with her. From a happy morning at the house to a pick up to get his daughter that night, the affects in one hour, were destructive. I was there for the ups and downs and watched him become more and more depressed as the years went by.
I helped him find a therapist and what I thought was getting him a good lawyer. We researched everything we could on narcissism, personality disorders, co-parenting with a narcissist, how to stay strong, took online coparenting classes together and journaled. But the outside stress had taken its toll. The tension this had on our relationship, the stress that invaded our personal lives, the damage it was doing psychologically. The darkness was taking over.
My own strength became weak, I allowed people to get into my head. I saw him become weaker mentally which made him much more susceptible to the mental abuse and manipulation over this past winter. This had a huge effect on me as well.
On July 1, 2017 he took his own life. And now an innocent child will grow up without a Father.
Why does a father have to fight so hard for any sort of custody of their own child?
Why is this the normal option now for divorced dads or struggling fathers to commit suicide?
This must stop….