I just joined MakerSupport Myself this person gives the best breakdown I’ve read so far about sites like these
“4 years ago I met my partner wounded and broken by his ex-girlfriend who he had a young baby with.
She falsely accused him of assault and got a restraining order against him.
She harassed my partner and I endlessly with false accusations, lawsuits, and tens of thousands of incessant text messages for years. He tried to rise above her mental insanity for his child.
He struggled. He stood up and stood down trying to protect his daughter. He spent every last penny he had fighting in court because mediation and old school “sit down and talk it out” was out of the question.
He was never given the rights he deserved.
He fought for custody in court and was granted 10 days a month visitation which his ex girlfriend didn’t honour. She would play games and make EVERY single child exchange extremely difficult. Which would cause undue stress on the child.
He would have to drive 8 hours to get his daughter through icy mountain passes on his own dime. Switching his days off at work every 5 minutes to suit her needs. The 2-4 travel days counted as part of the 10 days he had with his daughter.
There were many dark times. It broke my heart to see him fall apart after child exchanges. He would come home exhausted, completely defeated, and broken. He felt manipulated, and worthless.
It was really hard to watch that happen over and over to someone you love. I watched how stressed he would get from the 10s of thousands of texts and emails everyday consuming his life. Trying to ignore them, but couldn’t. They wouldn’t stop, no matter how many times he voiced his personal boundaries and space. The constant fear he had of the next legal document to be served or the next hurdle he would have to jump through to protect himself and his daughter. The anxiety that followed. The constant and unsubstantiated worry that caused significant distress and interfered with his daily life.
When she couldn’t control him, she would control how others saw him, internally turning friends and family against him. I saw the shame he felt at the grocery store or the swimming pool. I watched him avoid social situations in fear of being judged, embarrassed or humiliated. And the insecurities that followed.
I laid next to him every night while he tossed and turned. Unable to sleep. Needing extra love and snuggles or a back rub to finally fall asleep.
This was really hard and painful to support. My friends worried about me asking me when I don’t leave? But then again, how could I? He was tired. I was tired. Mentally exhausted. Not only was he in dire need of sleep, but in dire need of peace. I watched him begin to drink the pain away. After a nasty fight, coming home empty handed yet again without his daughter, the stress of the financial struggles from many, many legal fees.
I watched over the years his sense of self slowly erode from the verbal abuse, the threats, bullying and constant criticism. I watched as this ate away at him, trying to be happy on the outside, trying to enjoy life, but the damage was detrimental. His confidence and self-esteem became weaker and weaker every time there was contact with her. From a happy morning at the house to a pick up to get his daughter that night, the affects in one hour, were destructive. I was there for the ups and downs and watched him become more and more depressed as the years went by.
I helped him find a therapist and what I thought was getting him a good lawyer. We researched everything we could on narcissism, personality disorders, co-parenting with a narcissist, how to stay strong, took online coparenting classes together and journaled. But the outside stress had taken its toll. The tension this had on our relationship, the stress that invaded our personal lives, the damage it was doing psychologically. The darkness was taking over.
My own strength became weak, I allowed people to get into my head. I saw him become weaker mentally which made him much more susceptible to the mental abuse and manipulation over this past winter. This had a huge effect on me as well.
On July 1, 2017 he took his own life. And now an innocent child will grow up without a Father.
Why does a father have to fight so hard for any sort of custody of their own child?
Why is this the normal option now for divorced dads or struggling fathers to commit suicide?
This must stop….
I have some really mixed feelings about Twitter. For me, it’s a place where I gather material either for here on my Blog or for my YouTube channel. I thought that once I got started doing both The Red Pill Nation and my YouTube channel but Twitter despite the fact that it keeps suspending the accounts of my friends hasn’t failed to provide me with an endless amount of material to blog about.
And today Twitter didn’t disappoint. I’m writing this after having to once again do yet another video on the upcoming Black Panther movie because some writer over at CNN needed to cum in his pants to hype the movie, AND take more than a few shots at Donald Trump.
But I digress, this isn’t about Black Panther or Donald Trump this about Arianna Huffington. You see Arianna Huffington decided to come down and start demanding that men once again take one for them with no expectation or return on the social contract.
Yes folks despite the facts that Emily Linden Pulled this crap
And the fact that both Aziz Ansari and Jeremy Piven have been falsely accused among others.
Arianna Huffington wants all us men to just blindly step into the minefield again and happily risk career suicide and possibly even a prison sentence of a woman’s say so and mentor women. Well, Now I had a few choice tweets for her.
Now I seriously doubt that Arianna is actually going to ever read this. In fact, I doubt she even went and read the tweets she got from males everywhere about this. But you know don’t doubt me have a look for yourself.
She or some other staff stooge of hers will simply just disregard this. Either because I’m not a ‘real’ journalist, icky male or simply because I disagree with her, rightly so. But on the off chance you do happen to read this I have to say this.
Who the hell do you think you are? Are you fucking kidding me? Pardon the language but that Tweet and that whole website just stinks to high heaven of cognitive dissonance on a level that someone like you shouldn’t have. At this point, there is no way you couldn’t have heard the stories that false accusations are happening at a far greater percentage than what you’ve been told. Your publication is openly publishing these accusations without proof in a lot of cases. And THEN you have the gall to demand that males man up and gleefully jump back in the minefield again. Did you go over and read the responses to your Tweet? Do you even CARE? I have news for you, you’re not getting those tweets because you’re counterculture and trendy. You’re not getting them because scared males are afraid of losing their privilege. Hell, I’ve never had much male privilege any that I’ve had I had to carve out on my own. Nobody and I do mean NOBODY ever handed me any. In fact, I could probably say that had I not fought to find my maleness in my thirties so vigorously my life would likely be very unhappy right now. And you just assume that I and every other male just got this handed to them on a platter? What color is the sky on the planet you live on? Because it sure as hell wasn’t earth.
And if what you said wasn’t bad enough let’s just do a quick review of some of the things you’ve said and done about men in the past few months. You need to understand I kept the digging down here to a minimum here. I shudder to think what I would’ve found had I started doing some real digging.
I’ll start with the Two blogs I’ve done about Huffington Post
Lets just reverse the races on this and see how it sounds!
Huffington Post is Racist AGAIN!
Both of these articles were essentially the same thing. I switched out the word Black for the word White and let the changes speak for themselves. In no way have you ever tried to retract these articles as far as I can tell.
But then let’s get into what Huffington Post South Africa ran. In this case, you did have to do a retraction. Not before you got the man who ghost-wrote this horrible article fired from his job though
Now in a rare (And I do mean rare) bout of common sense, Verashi Pillay was forced to resign after allowing this to slip through. But here’s the thing I keep wondering here. What kind of environment was it like at The Huffington Post office that made it so easy for a fake article like this one to even slip through in the first place. There would’ve had to be failures at several places and not just the chief editor there to allow for something like this to even happen.
Not done yet, not by a long shot. Let’s talk about an article that was so badly written it got a mention at My five worst-hit pieces blog written way back in 2015.
This article was so bad that they had to remove the comments section because if they hadn’t his whole narrative would’ve fallen apart like a house of cards. Needless to say, Huffington Post hasn’t been granted this kind of access since to ICMI.
You know what Arianna? I’d like to say I’m done but I’m not here’s another dishonest gem that you idiots ran about the MRM.
Although it was never proven that Feminists started No Hymen No Diamond I did find it rather odd that an odd number of feminists found this site LONG before the bulk of the MRM did. When I stumbled into this site not one of the MRA’s that I was associated with had joined or even heard of this site. This, however, didn’t stop the Huffington Post from trying really hard to prove that it was. Their angle ran like this
There are MRA’s here, therefore, this is an MRA site! Does that mean NFL.com or NHL.com are also MRA sites? There’s probably a lot of MRA’s there too. The back story for this one is long and more than a little suspicious.
Fidelbogan did publish a rebuttal of sorts though
And last we have Emily McCombs who posted up this Misandric Comment at the start of the year!
And what did you do Arianna?
You did NOTHING! Now had this been reversed the man would’ve been fired in a cold second. In what’s becoming an old pattern now Emily McCombs said she was just “joking” again odd how that excuse always seems to surface whenever a Feminist makes a statement like this.
This is where you come in though Arianna. In NO WAY did you ever discipline, chastise, reprimand or even give any kind of statement about how you’re all about gender equality and comments like this are not helpful in the least. In fact, neither you nor The Huffington Post has publicly spoken out against Misandry like this ever as far as I can see.
You know what I could keep going but it’s getting so late here that it’s actually turning into very early.
This is my response to your demand. You and the publication you run have demonized and shamed men at every turn. I could get into #metoo and all the potential abuses that are already happening here including a suicide
I could also start digging into what happened in Cologne on New Year Day in 2016, but like I’ve already said it’s so late that it’s early now! But you in your self-important delusion think you can come on down and start demanding that men take another one for the team and risk their careers to help women that have no problem ruining their lives with just one accusation. Your tweet read more like a command and it sounds like you’ve gotten used to too many beta males or hired guns that will go with whatever you tell them.
So let me remind you that those negative comments on that Twitter post isn’t because you’re trendy and are going against the current culture. And NOW you have the nerve to demand that men fall on their swords all over again.
I have just one word for you.
I think the proper term would be “Left eats their own” no me in particular since I lean to the left myself. Personally, though the sooner these idiots self-destruct we can get down to discussing real issues on the left has and not be engaging in all this social justice crap that’s bringing everyone down
Yes, this is the man from the VICE MGTOW article
This article came out just a few weeks after Lauren Southern did her series of interviews at the Edmonton Slutwalk. This Slutwalk was the last one held here in Edmonton
What I remember about the VICE article was that back in 2015 VICE had a comments section. This comments section was easily one of the ugliest battlefields I’ve ever run across for a comment section. You name it I saw it happen or it happened to me. This is what I saw in the comments section. Sorry you’ll have to take my word for this because VICE no longer allows comments
*One man commented 97 TIMES that Elliot Rodger was a MGTOW and MRA and when he was called out by me refused to back up his claim
*There was another woman that came on made stupid comments, blocked me and my friends and then continued to post up and act like she was winning. Or at least she did until she was called out for doing this by me.
*Another woman blocked me and friends and then pretended to post up in support of me EXCEPT that she made the mistake of picking an MRA avatar, which ended up costing the whole ploy any legitimacy.
*Four separate times a White Knight came in posted up a comment, got his shit called whereupon the guy would block me and would then bravely post up AFTER he had blocked me declaring he brave he was doing so.
*A group of SJW’s started a thread in the comments section started a hate thread aimed specifically at me.
I could go on but I won’t. This is the first interview that this man has done since the Slutwalk as you will find out there was a method behind the madness.
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By now you can’t have missed Cathy Newman’s car crash interview with the amazing Jordan Peterson. Newman was utterly humiliated, throughout and was made to look even more foolish than in her 2016 “interview” of Milo Yiannopoulos, after which we exposed an elected Labour Member of Parliament advocated punching Milo. Ironically, that same MP, Anna Turley, is also the lead figure behind a proposed “social Media Malicious Communications Bill!”
Newman and Channel 4 are using the age old feminist tactic of crying “abuse” when they lose a debate, a tactic used superbly by jess Phillips to divert attention away from her sexist and childish campaign to try to stop men’s issues being debated in Parliament. Later, in 2016 Philips again played the victim when Youtuber Sargon of Akaad said he wouldn’t rape her, and she somehow counted every retweet or reply or disagreement as examples of abuse, making an…
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Once upon a time VICE used to bring you articles and stories that were interesting and made you care about human rights. Then VICE went full regressive and like many other publications of it’s kind they’re finding out the hard way that Social Justice, especially dishonest social justice doesn’t sell.
Good Bye VICE TV! Good Riddance I’m going to lay good odds that you’re far from the last company that’ll be in this condition as 2018 progresses