Warning The Language I use in this blog is very blunt! You are always free to make your choices in regards to Feminists and Feminism, the reality about what you’re about to read may be a little jolting.
So you don’t want to be an Anti-Feminist?
Ok, I can honour and respect that choice! This article isn’t about making you wrong for making this choice and if it comes across that way to you, that’s not my intention.
I am not specifically Anti-Feminist either. In picking order I’d go MRA first, MGTOW being a very solid second even though I was MGTOW long before I was an MRA. Anti-Feminism is a very distant third for me. But it is on there, although it’s not on there without some due consideration.
What you need to understand is that as an MRA and MGOTW is that your loudest most vocal critics are coming from within feminist ranks. To give you an idea how underhanded these people are you need only take a look at this group.
Not only is this group openly laughing at men’s issues they think that Misandry is funny. To boot, they’re actually posing as a men’s rights group, not convinced yet?
This second one is at least not trying to disguise itself as a men’s rights site, but I think you get the picture.
This is just a small sample of what I’ve found at Facebook! There was one site called “I Hate Men” it took a couple of months of constantly reporting the site to Facebook before they finally shut the group down. Somehow a group called I Hate Men wasn’t considered a Hate site even though it had Hate in the name.
Don’t believe me consider this stuff
So in case you didn’t figure it out your main opponents are feminists. Yes, you can also make a good point that apathy and ignorance are as bad if not a worse situation for the MRM at the moment, and you’d be right? Do you think that Feminists are rational and can be reasoned with at all? Consider what happened with Joss Whedon a couple of days ago. He got chased off Twitter by his allies
Then when he realized he’d just made a serious error attempted to do some damage control via Buzzfeed
Which caused the Ralph Retort and anyone else with a working brain, to call bullshit on Joss Whedon’s Mangina behavior.
The lesson you need to draw from this very recent event? Is that even if you’re an ally and white knight for feminists if you so much as slip up even a little bit, they’ll throw you under the bus in a cold second. Why because you’re male that’s why. And you believe that they will somehow not come after you? You’re an MRA dude! If you’re reading this blog, you’re likely at the very least a quiet supporter. They’re not going to leave you alone all they’ll see is MRA or MGTOW and that’ll be it. It won’t matter one lick that you’re not an anti-feminist, they’re fanatics they don’t think like that. If they even think at all.
What we can also conclude from this is something that I’ve known for a while but some people even more than a few MRA’s don’t know but it does need to be said bluntly. “Feminists in their current form cannot be reasoned with, bargained with or appeased. Logic, is something that’s completely lost on them. If they had been logical and rational, then they would’ve figured out that attacking one of their strongest allies wasn’t a good idea.”
Now, I’m sure you have your reasons for your choice. You’re in a situation where if someone finds out about your opinion, you may find yourself in trouble. Or maybe you’re like me where the women in your family are a large part of why you’re an MRA or MGTOW but haven’t told them. Or worse yet you’re staying this way because of woman you’re trying to impress. Got some news for you, she’s going to find out sooner or later anyway, as will your family and associates. In fact, I recently reposted a blog I wrote that emphasized the need for people around you know where you stand.
People will eventually find out, not only that, even if you chose to not fight against feminism that doesn’t mean that feminist won’t pick on you. I realize that you don’t want this to turn into a battle of the sexes and that there are larger issues (Global Warming, Political Corruption, etc.). Picking a side and sticking with that side is a choice you will have to make at some point. That is of course you want a situation like this to happen. Seriously this is the culture that Feminists and SJW’s are aiming for, do you want this to happen/
OK let me apologize for the bluntness of what I just posted up. Being told the truth of what you’re facing can be a hard pill to swallow even if it is a Red One. You can choose to stay where you are, and I’m not going to pressure you to change your mind. You also need to keep in mind that my version of the Red Pill isn’t the same as others though.
But here let’s have a look at some historic people say about staying neutral
“The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who, in times of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.”
― Dante Alighieri
“We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented.”
― Elie Wiesel
“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.”
― Desmond Tutu
“Washing one’s hands of the conflict between the powerful and the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral. ”
― Paulo Freire
But you know what those are just quotes and I can pull quotes from anywhere to justify just about anything. Here’s something written by another person, this person pretty much wrote the book on politics and I’ve rarely met a person with power that hasn’t at least heard of this guy. His name Niccolo Machiavelli. Yeah, he’s seen as amoral by some people, maybe even by you? What he wrote is still around though. But let’s take a look at what he says on taking sides
“A prince is also respected when he is either a true friend or a downright enemy, that to say, when, without any reservation, he declares himself in favour of one party against the other; which course will always be more advantageous than standing neutral; because if two of your powerful neighbours come to blows, they are of such a character that, if one of them conquers, you have either to fear him or not. In either case it will always be more advantageous for you to declare yourself and to make war strenuously; because, in the first case, if you do not declare yourself, you will invariably fall a prey to the conqueror, to the pleasure and satisfaction of him who has been conquered, and you will have no reasons to offer, nor anything to protect or to shelter you. Because he who conquers does not want doubtful friends who will not aid him in the time of trial; and he who loses will not harbour you because you did not willingly, sword in hand, court his fate.”
Here’s the whole chapter in case you doubt my claim
So even if you stand aside if by some chance the MRM loses? YOU lose too, the feminists will come for you and they won’t care that you didn’t do anything to them. In case you didn’t get that part I posted up earlier.
I’m not demanding that you take a side, pick up a sword and start attacking feminists openly and brazenly. Nor am I advocating misogyny here. But if you’ve decided to be an MRA or MGTOW they will come for you eventually. People can and will find out where you stand. Yes, you can act like everyone else and think as you like. If you’re not at least preparing to stand and fight at some point then well don’t blame me anyone else in the Greater Men’s movement when or if they come for you.
This isn’t going to be a civilized debate between societies I’d love nothing more if Feminists and Social Justice Warriors would just wise the fuck up and let everyone be. You and I both know that’s not the case though. Making yourself clear is freeing to the mind, and that part I can vouch for personally.
Just consider this the next time you feel the need to post up things like “I don’t want to be an anti-feminist or be seen as one.” You just read this blog didn’t you? Then you know what the opposition is like. Ask yourself if they’ll really leave you alone.
It’s still your choice, you can’t say that you don’t know anymore!